Wednesday, April 12, 2006

The Art of French Kissing

Tips from the Kissing Expert..haha.

Hmm where can i start from. See basically French kissing involves tongue contact, and there's really no right or wrong way to do it. But there certainly are plenty of preferences! You can ask ur loved one which one they prefer...so u can keep on experimenting.

  • Look into ur patner's eyes with utmost love ....something that wud make them melt in ur arms..or sweep them off their feet...draw them closer to your mouth and then lick your patner's lips, then slide ur tongue into ur patner's mouth
  • "Wrestle" with your partner’s tongue. Swirl ur tongue around his/hers. Playfully lick the very tip of your partner’s tongue.
  • Tell your partner to stick out his or her tongue, then lick it.
  • Repeatedly lick your partner’s tongue while it’s still in your partner’s mouth.
  • Lick the palete of your partner’s mouth to give a lil tickling sensation.
  • Gently, then vigorously, suck your partner’s tongue.
  • Gently chew your partner’s tongue with your lips.
  • Explore your partner’s mouth with your tongue as if you were searching for something.

Tongue tips for boyz :

  • Slow down! Your tongue doesn’t have to dart furiously in and out of her mouth. Take your time. Tease a bit. Let her get her tongue in your mouth once in awhile.
  • French Kissing is fun if it’s soft, sensual, and intimate.it should not be slobbering or deep throat. Gentle, delicate French kisses deepen intimacy.
  • And pls do not burp mid-way...haha...so see that no aerated drinks be4 kissing.

Tongue tips for gurlz :

  • Act vulnerable..guys think it's a great turn on.
  • Put more passion into your French kisses. Touch them with your hands if they are free.
  • Just get into it and breathe through your nose if you have to, or breathe through the corner of your mouth.

The Do’s and Don’ts of French Kissing


Some basic tips to help ANYONE perfect his or her own French kissing style.

Do's :

  1. Take an active part in the kiss. Push your tongue into your partner’s mouth. It may feel funny at first, but you’ll get over your shyness in no time.
  2. Take a passive part at times. When your partner pushes his or her tongue into your mouth, relax and enjoy the sensation, meeting him or her with your tongue.
  3. Breathe through your nose so that you can prolong the kiss.
  4. Close your eyes now and then so that you can concentrate on the feelings.
  5. Utter little inarticulate cries and moans to communicate some of your excitement to your partner. It makes a big difference..believe me..it will boost both ur egos and confidence level.
  6. Explore each and every part of your partner’s mouth, such as the inside of the cheeks, the teeth, the region under the tongue, and the palatglossal arch at the side of the back of the mouth. Your main interest, of course, will be your partner’s tongue because it will feel so sinfully soft and will respond to your every move and touch.

Don't:

  1. Be afraid of tongue contact. Some people get shy when they encounter their partner’s tongue. You must overcome this bashfulness.
  2. Don’t press your lips together tightly, because this makes the French kiss impossible.
  3. Gag.
  4. Get nervous if you feel your head swimming and your nerves tingling. It happens to even the most experienced kissers.
  5. Chew gum. Gum will only interfere with the kiss and with the sensations you will feel. Besides, gum doesn’t feel as good as the inside of your partner’s mouth, does it? If you do this kiss properly, with an empty mouth, you’ll feel that your souls are merging.(did u knw that the french kiss is also called the Soul kiss??) Do you really want to spoil that sensation with a wad of chewing gum?
  6. Overdo it. Many people report that they like French kissing so much that they do it for an hour or more nonstop. freakin...haha..But, remember as with anything else, too much of a good thing can be counterproductive. If you tongue-kiss an hour without stopping you’re bound to decrease your pleasure the next time you kiss. There will be no more suprises.The solution is to take a short break every five or ten minutes. Chat with your partner. Have a glass of water or some candy.

And incase you dnt like the technique he or she uses while kissing. please do tell them.Unless you tell him/he, he/she is not going to know. The next time he/she kisses you, after you've finished the kiss, let him/her know that you would like to try kissing differently. Be sincere about it. When he/she asks you how, tell him/her nicely and calmly how you would like to be kissed. Don't get mad or frustrated with him/her. Communication is the key to a strong and healthy relationship. If you don't like French kissing tell him/her! There's nothing wrong with not liking it. Many people don't like it or are not ready for it. Remember: be sincere, don't put ur patner down or the way he/she kisses, and let him/her know exactly what you'd like.

finally i think i touched everything...yeh try new ways....ways u have created too..There’s nothing like a French kiss with a peppermint-flavored tongue or a cherry-flavored mouth. i happen to like both the flavours...haha...And yeh my fav...dnt forget coffeee...mmmmmmmmmmm...

sigh i wish sumbody wud kiss me that way...sob sob..You burn 26 calories in a 1 minute kiss...so happy kissing...buh-bye

laters